My H refused to go to C. He kept telling me that it wasn't him it was me. That was until he finally hit bottom. He made all the arrangement to go. He called me up crying his eyes out and told me that he had made an appt. He went and felt alot of relief because the C was someone he could dump everything on and she wouldn't take sides. He went for a year.
Some wake up and others don't. It depends on them. It just takes so long with MLC. I thought my H would be ones of those that wouldn't wake up!
