I fall into the same trap myself. I am a pleaser as well and it is a hard mode to get out of and still be their friend. I have been helping her move of all things. The good part is I get to see my kids at least. If he is like me then he will likely just wear them wrinkled lol

Hopefully he will come around to his senses and at least you didn't do it and feel unreciprocated afterwards

TwinDad
Me 39, W 36, M 11
W - MLC, WAW????
2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old
Start of the Long and Bumpy Road.....
On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning