Latest scoop....I have read everyone's response- Thank you! I will respond back, but cant right now.....have to spend LOTS of time with H.
I JUST told him. I said these words: "The guy sent me a letter in the mail. I messaged him back telling him that you and I are together now and he said he wouldn't jeopardize my chance at happiness in my marriage and that there was nothing he could do if I wanted my H." H looked a little taken aback at first. I explained that I actually feel a little better because I had always kind of worried he might still stop by or something. I told him that now, I know he will not and I can stay happy in my home and we don't have to move. My H SMILED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Then he said something about the phone call hang ups, and I said we could get an unlisted number if he wants. Then, he starts to get going on the fact that I gave him our home number, etc. THen, he shakes his head and says "It doesn't matter." He comes over and hugs me. OH MY GOD I LOVE THIS MAN! I said I will always tell you if he contacts me. He gave me a tight squeeze and said, "I know." I hugged him tight back. I'm so lucky to be with this man.
Ok, I have to go. I'll be back later tonight or tomorrow.
