I think it is good that you are being so straight with him. If he comes back too soon he may well be tempted to go back to OW as well if she tries to manipulate him. You are so wise to make him 'work' for your M.
Whilst being cautious I am still so very happy for you Sally. I know you haven't thought this was an option for quite a while....but you have never shut the door. I hope this H of yours is good enough to deserve you.
Will he continue to work with OW? This may be an issue if he does.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
