Sheila & lwb-

Sorry it took me a few days to respond. Things have been busy at work & quiet at home. D4 has had a cold & has kept me awake at night with her coughing. Poor baby.

I've been trying to get some things done to get myself in a better position for the split. I've paid off some bills and have been checking on some other items. I've been considering changing my life insurance beneficiary to my parents or my sister, as I know that the money would certainly go only to what D4 needs if anything happened to me. Not that I'm worried, but we all know how life can change in an instant!! I don't think H will make me take his bills, but I believe that he has opened another credit card. It seems like he's getting himself further into debt. He's done it a few times before & I want to be out before it gets to bad again.

Life at home has been pretty quiet the past few days. D4 asked me to play a couple of songs on YouTube for her last night. I pulled it up and saw that H had searched and sent the song "The Real Love" by Bob Seger. When H got home last night I asked him if he remembered what our wedding song was. He said no, do you? I said yes I do. I said, I also know that it probably wouldn't have had the same significance to you to send it to OW today if you'd remembered that we'd danced to it and used it as our wedding song. Yes, our wedding song was "The Real Love". I walked out of the room. H was silent & didn't say a word the rest of the time he was home. He wasn't snotty, just very quiet.

My parents were originally going to come here next weekend, but I think D4 and I may go there for the long weekend. It would be nice to get away.

Well, both bosses are out of the office today but it's still a busy day.

Have a good one!

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day