Trying to wrap my mind around the situation

[TwinDad]

Yesterday was a pretty good day. I got an e-mail from the W mid day saying how she didn't get anything done with the un packing of the house because the kids were un-doing everything that she tried to do. I actually got a little chuckle out of it. She then had an unpacking party with her friends which consisted of them sitting around looking at pictures and drinking. It will be interesting to see what gets done today.

Also the day before, she accused me of stashing money away somewhere and that her lawyer could find it. So last night I asked her if she really thought that way in a very calm tone and she said she had her suspicions. So I think I shocked her when I offered to pay to have her lawyer or whoever do the check. She seems to have trust issues with me and I figured this was a way to at least address one of them. The offer seemed to change her mood. The remainder of the night was pretty nice for us.

I stayed over again (in the guest room) but I asked her if she felt more comfortable when I am here than when she is alone and she said yes :-) Its progress I guess.....