It's only because of the advice I got on this board that I started to "replace the wishbone with a backbone". Shecontrols the outcome, but once again, a divorce is so unnecessary in this case. It's all about "my love tanks are empty", "don't you want to find somebody who knocks your socks off?" (No sh*t! She actually said that!), "you're great when I tell you what to do, but you don't take initiative", "you have no interest in our finances" (fair enough, but she has absolutely no patience to sit and discuss it like a normal human being. She loses her sh&t two minutes into it!), "you've never told me I'm the most beautiful woman in the world......etc, etc.....Won't change a THING, but that's the sum total of taking a full-time father away from my kids and altering their lives forever. Period.
Good advice, Happy Today: I CAN'T GIVE WHAT I DON'T HAVE, BUT I WILL ALSO NOT GIVE EVERY CENT IT WOULD TAKE ME TO HAVE A DECENT LIFESTYLE. I'M NOT LIVING IN ANOTHER GARAGE APARTMENT AND EATING CELERY AND TAP WATER. PERIOD......
