I just read your post on yellowrose, IT'S NOT YOU!!!!! I thought the same thing when my H told me he wanted a D! Don't be afraid, my H filed the next week after he said he wanted the D. I had to do lots of snooping but found out about OW in another state. My D is final now as of April 8th, H quit his excellent job & moved to the other state with OW. I know it is a MLC but I really haven't given up on him, for some reason I can't.
I guess I should but I'm so lonely & miss him so bad!!!! We were so close. If you want to read my thread, I was on newcomers for a long time & that's where you will find out about my sitch. Read the part where the OW sent me an email thanking me for my H!!!!!
Hang in there, I'm having these very hard days & nights too. I don't sleep but stay in bed for a long time in the mornings. I'm with you girl!!!
