Well, I can't seem to get through, but I wanted to add that I think you are doing good at trying to be more relaxed and not so serious all the time. That hit home with me b/c I was acutally told that when younger, I was so happy-go-lucky and then I seemed so sad and serious all the time. It was b/c of the bad things we were going through with our daughter, but I did not realize that I had personally become like that. So, it is hard to get out of that "state" and work on being more "fun" to be around.
Just wanted to say that you are doing good. Regarding what was said about Om being the opposite of H's etc., that is usually true. If you have a "dry humor"....that is usually the funniest b/c it comes across so naturally. My H is like that. He is not the "silly" acting kind, but he can crack me up with his dry humor. I love it.
I'm sure you probably feel silly just trying to unwind and be "fun" and all that and I think you deserve a gold star for that.
Keep up the good work.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
