You did not fail my dear. Your H failed himself. I remember being at your stage in the journey. It is painful. Facing the big divorce does not even seem real. My ex had to go through with it. He had to relive his childhood when his parents divorced. You are not the cause of the divorce. Divorce does not mean the end. Look at my ex and all that he is doing. My ex cried all the time too. It was so pathetic and sad. Please do not feel you are alone in this. Let him spin and spin. Do not get sucked into his divorce drama.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
