You know best how you should handle your sitch. I'm glad you feel at peace - that is very important. Many positive things can happen even after the final papers are signed. You have grown so much over the last 3 months that you've been on here.
Here's a great big ((((((HUG)))))).
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz