How was your dinner with your friends? I do hope that you H goes to see his family. Maybe some away time will be good for him.

Sounds like things are doing alright. I think asking him for lunch was a great idea and maybe if you slowly continue to do things like that, you will see a change.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08