Hi sh- I am sorry you are so stressed. Do you think that could have anything to do with why you want to give up right now? What is going to change if move forward with the D now or later? IMO, it would just stress you out more right now. August is not that far away and if you are so busy with everything, then just see if you can put it all out of your mind. Now I need to start listening to myself.
Have you tried mediation or yoga for your stress. I am going to take my first yoga class on Friday...I think.
When I moved, I moved most of my H's belongings with me. I made him come and get his clothes (which he was extremely angry about) but I have all of his other possessions in my garage or in a spare closet. You need to do what is best for you...and if having him get his stuff, then you should do it. If you want to hold on to it longer, then you should do that.
Hang in there sh. I wish I had more advice for you...but I am sure you will find your strength and take the right path.
