I am back from my Dad's. He didn't bring up the issues with my H at all. He did talk about my uncle's divorce (which has been going on for 2 long years), but nothing about me. He said that seeing me always brightens up his day. I don't spend enough time with my Dad, that is for sure.

H's dirty clothes has been sitting in a hamper on the back porch since Sunday. I told him that I would move the hamper to the garage because that is where his other stuff is. I am not concerned about them except just normal concern that he hasn't came to get the smelly socks! LOL

I wanted to let him be aware that since he has left, I haven't been sitting here pining over him. And I really haven't. Maybe a little bit now and then, but I have been working on doing the things I enjoy. Saturday night I had a nice time by myself watching "Rent" and eating Papa Johns pizza. Something if H was home I wouldn't have done because he doesn't like "Rent" and hates pizza from PJ's. I didn't tell him all that, just kept him guessing but let him know that I have plans and am having a nice time.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08