Sara, listen to the sweet girlfromi...she is wise beyond her years. Your H has made his bed and now he has to sleep in it, its just a fact. He needs to get his head together and this is just what he needs and you sounding upbeat and fun is just an added bonus. You are doing really well and I am impressed as well. I need to visit here more often and start taking notes.

You could always just put his clothes in a bag and let him worry about washing them himself...

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option