LOL! I figured you all would say that, but I just wanted to ask because I am weak at times and need the reassurance that I was doing the right things.
So H actually called me today. He wanted to know a few things from me such as when his cell phone bill is due and also the schedule for the classes he is taking that start on Monday. I gave him the information he wanted and he thanked me. He also said that he needs to set a time with me so that he can come over and get some more clothes. I told him that would be fine, just let me know. I wasn't going to be home at all tomorrow, so that wouldn't work but any other day would be fine, just let me know because I am busy. I told him that I had his dirty clothes here and he didn't seem concerned too much. He asked me if I had changed the locks. I did not directly answer his question.
He chatted a little bit askign me about work and things. I told him about the Botanitcal Gardens. I did not ask him about where he was staying, the OW or anything else in that topic. I tried my best to sound upbeat and fun.
I think it went well. He sounded sort of sad. He said that he would call me again and we could get a time for him to get those clothes.
I actually feel good about the conversation. My Dad just invited to to dinner and I am taking him up on the offer. I just hope he doesn't ask me a bunch of questions. I know from my mom that he thinks I need to get things rolling with a lawyer. I don't want that right now. Last time he talked to me about these things I felt like crap after the conversation...I dont' want that again...
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08