and I know very well that I do have my own choices here. it is not all in his control or at his will. and instead of leading him like a child, I will let him figure it out as a man. he's been led too many times
Its so great that you see this about your H, that he has been handed everything in his life. He will only truly appreciate you and your R if he can come back by doing his own work. asto is totally correct, let him guide the reconciliation. He knows what needs to be done. You are very grounded and have been upfront about what needs to happen before things are on the way.
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oh, and since I have decided I am neglecting myself far too much, I scheduled a facial for tomorrow...bliss. and a pedi for tuesday. the kids (via h) gave me a gift cert for a day spa, so putting it to good use already. and boy do I need it!
You don't need it girl, but boy, do you deserve it.
