Those of you that followed my sitch know that I have been very unsure as to when I would make this declaration. We have all seen the false positives that live out there and I wanted to be damn sure that I was right.
In a nutshell, I have been back home since December 14th. At first there was some talk of me moving back out again but I held my ground (thanks DOM). We started to see a MC which has been very helpful. Most importantly I think we both realized for as much of an ass that I had been that people can and will change with the right motivation....
So why do I choose today to declare our D busted you ask... well lets just say that your favorite Hound has been very sick the last few days. To be polite I have been spending far too much time in a specific room in the house and it was not for grooming.
I decided that we have busted the D because as I was multitasking last night she came in the room rubbed my back, changed out my...um.....spittoon and told me how proud she was of us that we were here together. What timing right?! I thought it was the best timing ever....
I am sure that Michelle will tell you that the most certain sign that you have busted your D is when your WAW is superhelpful as you are having issues on both ends for several days!
The romance of it all.....
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
