H and I are doing well in the sense of talking and having some fun together as a family. i found out why his parents or oneof the reasons his parents have a hard case against me. they seem to think my h will mess up his business by us being back together, which in the end would mess up mfil $ since he works for my h.
as far as h and i we have not moved back together, there are financial issues around that but we are together every night for dinner and putting d to bed.
i try to keep using solution based method of solving our problems, echoed in my head are timing, talk about things when timing is good, so i've learned some about patience, sometimes i even wait a day or two to talk about serious or so i though serious things, it allows me to reallyt hink about how to approach h.
on me i have some decisions to make about work - if returning for next school year, part time, full time, and where. i keep my eye on the goal and do slip now and then but we do have shorter times between fights. for example, sunday we were so angry at one another he left my house but came back after a cool down, before days or even weeks would pass before we would speak so both he and i have grown in that res pect.
Me 40 H 30 D19 previous marriage, d3 and s10months H walked out nov 1, 2009 Seperated ever since filed for d nov 2010, served h 12-22-10
