Hey Lola! Someone will answer. Sometimes it takes a while for a person who feels connected enough with your situation to find you. Of you look around at other threads, and see a situation that sounds familiar, you can jump in and post there, and invite people to your thread, too. Sometimes that gets you some posters sooner.
I think you have realized the big thing, that the crying, begging, and pleading were not helping. I think it is a good thing that he is contacting you, and that you are the first person he calls.
If you could post a little bit more about yourself (ages, kids, length of marriage, for example) and how things came to this point, it will help people understand your situation, so that they can make useful posts to you.
