still need to be here at times

[hopeful4her]

wdid, I am leaning to you NOT telling your H about how much you think about OM.

Concerning the letter, your H needs to understand that OM did not realize that you broke it off to work on your marriage. H needs to understand that OM thought you broke it off because of something he did.

Again, being transparent to H is important.

Again, I just don't think H needs to know how much you think about OM, just needs to know that it is hard on you, too. To me that would me 'nuff said.

Not sure if others would agree with that.