CW, as you know, I was pretty much fully detached in my sitch.

To the point where we had a dinner which I proclaimed to be the "breakup dinner".

Two days later she wanted to recommit to me and to our marriage.

So far it has been going extremely well. It's coming up on 3 weeks now! No major hiccups, a few decent chats, but nothing too heavy.

So, just because it all SEEMS unrecoverable doesn't mean that it is.

Space, time, and pulling back slightly...those are your best bets right now.


Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!