The OM was the one to make me laugh and smile all the time. My H was the serious one as well, and when he did try to joke around it was usually not funny. Remember, what is attractive to her now is the flip of you. Now, being back with H, I love his serious side. I know I am taken care of, I know that nothing will happen to me, that he has it all under control. It allows me to be more of the "free" one.
I have heard, "Your boring! Your too serious. Your a grouch, just like your dad. You never listen to me. You never go out. Make more friends. Go out with your friends. You never take the kids and give me a day off. You mean you used to be silly? I have never seen that side of you" and so on and so on.
wdid, I know several of these sound familiar to you. It gives me hope that those characteristics you now realize in your H are the one that are attractive. I will be both to her, again. Serious in the serious things, but not afraid to laugh at herself. That is my WW. She can make anyone laugh. Doesn't mind making fun of herself. My funny is dry humor and hers is silly humor. Just working on finding both in me.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
