Hi all, just kinda veggin' here while working. I was just thinking while bringing a file across the building. I use the term "you win" when I talk to H and say he can have his divorce. But that's not really accurate because I wouldn't be losing at all. I live in a nice area with our D and have lots of family and friends that love me. I pay all my bills on time and sometimes have enough over to treat D and myself to things....and that's with less child support than I would legally be getting. So I've made it and will continue to make it regardless of H returning or not. He on the other hand will have the bachelor life he wants so badly, but will only be able to see his child twice a week still. For someone that loves their child as much as H does, that's really a sucky deal. Is that what he wants? Would he happy with that? I'm not saying this is what's going to happen at all. I'm saying that I will not be a loser in the deal at all and hadn't really thought of it that way before.
