Confused no longer - Give me the strength

[Snow White]

Good afternoon all.

Karen - I downloaded my motivated mom's calendar today, gotta go home and clip my D's fingernails! We'll see how that goes. Thanks for the link.

H showed up this morning on his way to work to bring a coffee for me and a doughnut for D. Just brought it in and then was on his way. He called later from work frustrated becuase he couldn't find the files on his disk for his golf league and he is going to have to do up the handicaps from the manual records. I offered to do up the schedule for him, and worked on it quickly then sent it up. He is not that great on computers.

I have a question for everyone. When H moved out he said it would be for a "week or two" to clear his head. That first week I tried to "make him miss me" I was brief on the phone, I only answered important texts and I made myself and D very busy when he tried to set up things to do with us. It was the first week granted but things were very tense between us and it did not seem that he missed us at all, more that he was put off by my "treatment" of him.

Since then I have been more welcoming, I still am not calling or texting first but I do respond, flirt in response ect. He has been around a lot more and we have been getting along very well.

So my question is, is it good that things are going well and we are getting along because this is a way to "shine a light back to my marriage" and I should continue in this path or should I be more distant to make him want to come home because right now he has the best of both worlds?

Keep in mind I have been trying to GAL, I have gone out a few times with friends(to H's dismay) and I am starting my baseball league tomorrow night.