I would put the letter in a sealed envelope and give it to him, telling him what it is. I would tell him my fears concerning his reading the letter, and ask him to consider that before deciding whether or not to read it. But the letter is his. You won't hide it or anything else from him.
I think that is a GREAT idea.
Originally Posted By: whatdidido
He knows I told him I loved him. He knows that much. I just kept saying that I wanted to be with HIM, not the OM and that is why I am here with him now. No matter what I did, and what I said, I am here with him....NOT with the OM.
Ok, he heard you say it, but now he needs for you to show him that you meant what you said.
Have you read "The Five Love Languages" (5LL) by Gary Chapman?
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
