I'm glad you had this conversation w/ your counselor and shared it w/ me. I'm also very glad that we both can be more at ease w/ our situations.
It is unfair what is happening, but it is happening and we have to deal w/ it.
I do feel much more at ease, but I still wish I wasn't here. However, who really knows? I may have needed this in order to learn how much I love my family, to learn how to become patient, to learn how to be affirming and a good listener. To just learn more about being a better me.
I wish I wouldn't have had to go this route, but it is the path I've been selected to walk, so now it is up to me to maximize my experiences while I'm on my journey.
I have to continue to learn so I can be the man I'm supposed to be.