Glad you can go this weekend, although sorry about the funeral. Seems to me like those are almost always mid-week. I don't get that either.
About Retro: first, glad you posted that there's one in July! I'll have to look into that.
Second - the next LOCAL one might not be til October but are there some in other cities that you could go to? That might open up all kinds of possibilities and keep you from stressing too much about the date. I had looked into one in San Diego at one point. You can do the followup weekends with the local "chapter" even if you do the weekend somewhere else. Not sure how that would work if you're not back for awhile, but I'm sure that they would work with you to figure something out.
Is there one in AZ during the time you'll be there? Maybe H can fly down for the weekend? I've heard of people going to the followup weekends alone and video-taping it to watch with their spouse later if both of them can't make all the sessions, too.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread