Originally Posted By: NikB
she would be devastated, it would kill her (his words) if he went back to me.

boy, have I heard that a million times. Guilt drew my stbx over and over and over again, despite the fact he KNEW and everyone around him told him she was toxic and to get the heck out of her life. He said it was over, but kept calling her. So please please be careful, I got a few positive talks with stbx earlier this year and last christmas, he put up a front admitting ow was bad for him.

Bottom lines, more actions less words from him.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.