The OM was the one to make me laugh and smile all the time. My H was the serious one as well, and when he did try to joke around it was usually not funny. Remember, what is attractive to her now is the flip of you. Now, being back with H, I love his serious side. I know I am taken care of, I know that nothing will happen to me, that he has it all under control. It allows me to be more of the "free" one.