cw68, I cam eover to see how you are cause you sounded cheerful, I am glad I did.
I had one of these convos lately. I am not familiar with details of your sitch, but for us it was an ice breaker. Suddently we could communicate better. And it continues (had one tonight about his job-he initiated it). IMO, once we talked and he realised that we can actually understand each other, that there are no "crazy" feelings of anger and disrepect he relaxed. It opened up a link, a communication channel. So, as Michelle says, wait to see if this convo changed anything, even for a bit in your R...
