Wow, that was a gutsy move asking her back to bed. I would love to have W share my bed - but for us, right now, that would not be a good thing. Right now, she is sharing the bathroom with the two kids rather than coming into the master badroom to share ours. She did say that maybe when she is out for the summer, she would share our bathroom again. I have done so many backlsids that if I asked her, I think that would be the final ticket. She wants her space, need to give it to her. But man, do I miss her at night, just the touch of her hand sends shivers up my spine...
I don't think my W is having any meetings with OM, but EA probably still going on, not sure. She promised that she would not contact him, but as Puppy says, once a liar, always a liar until they recommit and have remorse.
We rarely email each other, it was always calls for us, I don't know the last time she actually called me on my cell... like you, I always hope she will, not horrible if she doesn't, but would love her just to call and say how is it going? But even that is too much to ask.
A 40 minute drive to you home from work, man, you guys are out in the boonies!
CBK
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09