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Originally Posted By: Kalni
I just realised it's the first time since "we met" you are working on your R with W... How does it feel, Jeff?

Well, I'd like to say it feels great, and I'm really hopeful. But that would be a bunch of hooey!

It feels like it is time to find out whether there is any real hope. And I can't do that be sitting still. I guess I've picked myself up a bit, and so I am starting. I really am not at all hopeful, below no expectations. But, I need to find out.

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Originally Posted By: Kalni
Why do I get this feeling you are up for a surprise?

Really? I think I am getting really good at the no expectations thing!


That's why it's called a surprise. Cause if you expect it, not really surprising is it?

Less nagging less talking = apathy
Apathy = learn to date again.
Apathy = VERY bad for marriage.

Transporting those plants...good idea. You have formed the idea, you have talked about the idea, now implement the idea.

I have learned that when women tell us stuff, they really like it when we show we have listened to them. Like, "Don't kill that plant." : )



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You have taken some very bold steps towards working on your R. You should be proud of yourself....I'm proud of you! Keep up the good work...you will begin to see some baby steps...like with the scale!

BA


Me:43
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M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally

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Originally Posted By: ba065
You have taken some very bold steps towards working on your R. You should be proud of yourself....I'm proud of you! Keep up the good work...you will begin to see some baby steps...like with the scale!

BA

((((((BA))))))
I like to think that I have taken some bold steps in working on myself!

The results will be a better me. After that, we'll see!

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They are both for you and your M. And regardless of how the future turns out, I think they will better both you and the R w/ your W, whether ex-W or not.


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Ok, I'll give you that! You are a smart one! For now, it is easier for me to think of the changes as being for me, though they will certainly change my relationships, as well!

((((((Michelle))))))

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Good Morning Transformer!!! (it suits you even better than T),

I hope you day is coke free and happy!
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(((((((Kalni)))))))
It will be Coke free!
And it will be happy!

I played Uno with the two younger kids for a half hour or so last night before they went to bed. I hadn't done that in a while, it was fun!

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Sounds like a great evening.

Enjoy the day!

(((Jeff)))


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I think those ADs are starting to kick in...


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