The separation is her choice, not mine. She never wants to talk about the R (says I smother her when we talk about it). We get along great, she says she needs her space. We have almost 3 years old twins who we plan to trade off every week.
TwinDad, Similar situation here. W moved out (her choice) on 4/19. Wow, almost a month now! Our kids are a bit older, but we have also been trading weeks with them.
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The latest is she wants me to pay for half of the furniture for the kids rooms that will be in her house. Her argument is that it is for the kids. My reply was, well if things don't work out are you going to pay for half of a nice fuirniture set for the kids at my house.
Her choice to separate. Her choice to purchase the house. I wouldn't chip in to help furnish her home. Sounds like she is overextended and doesn't have the cash for the furniture. You have responsibility to keep your children fed, clothed and schooled, but she needs to experience the reality of maintaining her new home.
