Originally Posted By: JeffSTL
BURN IT AND FORGET ABOUT IT


Yes, I agree, BUT do this AFTER you show it to your H first.

If your H finds out about this letter, and not through YOU, any positive steps you've taken towards repairing trust will vanish immediately!

YOU MUST BE TOTALLY TRANSPARENT WITH YOUR H IF YOU WANT TO GIVE YOUR M EVERY POSSIBLE CHANCE TO SURVIVE.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell