Trusting, seems like you are seeing some peeks into the tent.
your response - "This is what you wanted." - seems to be not very empathetic? I mean, I get where you are coming from. Of course you would feel that way! The situation is the result of HIS choices.
But your pointing it out to him doesn't make it easier for him to come back.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....