CBK, a couple of months ago, the big D fight, WW calls OM and tells him that she will no longer call him and for him not to call her. She tells him that she is doing this in front of me. I could hear him saying,"What? What did I do? Why do I deserve this?" She tells him, "I don't want to lose my kids." Jackass. She did this because that was when I finally told her that she would lose everything if she D's me, meaning the kids. That no contact lasted until the next evening. He must have called her 10 times the next day. "Please call me. I know you told me not to call. I can help you, somehow. You know your not gonna lose the kids. Please, at least let me have closure. Maybe we can still have lunches at least."
Anyway, that night she hit the sofa. For about a month. Somewhere in my posting, one night I asked her:
Me: Will you think about coming back to bed? WW: Why? Me: Just. WW: I don't want to give you the wrong idea. Me: You never do. WW: (one minute pause) OK
Now that has been a little over a month now. I caught some hell here for asking her to come back to bed, but I'm glad I did it. Not a good detaching thing to do, though.
Puppy, the drive home for us is about 40 minutes by itself one way. Plenty of time to talk. The thing that goes through my mind is an actual meet. Video store is a normal thing for us. She likes to pick out the movies for us and the girls. We are movie freaks.
WW has called me today to refer a client. It feels ssooooo good to talk to her during the day. Hardly happens anymore. For anything.
Gonna send her a light, funny email thanking her and ask her how she wants the insurance card.
Last edited by hopeful4her; 05/14/0804:19 PM.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
