I am also right here with you. I know how much it hurts to believe that your spouse has ended it with the OP just to find out that it is back on (or in my case might have moved onto another OW). It just opens those wounds all over again.

My best advice to you is to let things cool down for awhile before you do anything. Don't talk to him, don't have any communication with him for several days. During that time look inward and focus on being the you that you can be.

It is just so difficult, isn't it? It is hard to keep going sometimes because you just never know what is around the next corner. But we are going to make it through this.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08