Hi W2G, Your decision to move sounds exciting - many changes ahead for you. I can definitely sympathize with you on many levels 1)the commute 2) being in limboland. I also spend about 2 hours a day commuting to and from work everyday (although I'm off work until the end of the summer). Although my R with H is much better now, I don't see it progressing for a very long time because of some major changes we are both making. You need to do what feels right for yourself and D and hopefully H will decide to join you on the journey.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
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