I know that DBing tells you to not believe everything you hear and see, but I am finding it difficult these days as the lies about myself and our relationship become more and more outrageous. He is now telling people that I am basically psycho and that I am going to "cut his gas lines". I would never do such a ridiculous thing.
I found out the latest yesterday right before I saw him. At first it was very hard to be nice to him, but I bit my tongue and put the 48hr rule into effect. To my surprise our interaction went nicely and had a genuineness that I didn't know was lacking until last night. But............
At one point we were best friends, each other's biggest cheerleaders, and respected each other more that we ever have another person. I gave him a lot of good years and even when I left I continued to be a friend, continued to try, and continued to respect him and our relationship. This is in no way to say I was the perfect wife. If I was we would most likely be together. It just crushes me that he is doing this for absolutely no good reason and after 8months and me giving in to his every request. Just having a hard day. Hope for tomorrow will get me through today.
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Posts Role Reversal(original) WAW now LBS part I & II WAW now LBS part III(current) T: 9 yrs M: 8 yrs WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07 LBS: Sep 07-pres.
