Hi, you are grieving for your past and your future, for now you have just been dealt a card that says you can only live in the present, and this is what gets us all through the MLC nightmare.
Live each day as it comes, very slowly things will change and although it wont be a smooth journey it will becaome a worthwhile and fulfilling future, because it will be your future, and it will be filled with happy memories.
Difficult to think of now but with the support of the board, family and friends and good legal advice we do get through it.
just look out for yourself and your kids, your MLC spouse will look after themselves well enough.