For the guy with kids and WW II

[hopeful4her]

Thank you, Sandi. Again, great words of wisdom. I keep everything upbeat as much as possible. I stopped the sad puppy face a couple months ago. I only let her see the aloof guy. And great dad.

My new word. Aloof. I like it. Like I said to CBK, Hakuna Matada for now.

wdid, definately keeping all the good things in my back pocket to enjoy for later. Not going to push. That has been my problem before. I see the good starting to come out and start to push the R and then do things like snoop and think too much and then talk too much. Back to square one.

Will stay away from that like the plague. No R talks. Even when she tries to bring it up.

CBK, you keep mentioning that you don't get the bedroom thing. What do you mean?

Gonna definately pull back a little, Puppy. She has to come to me. I take the evening for what it was. Just a good fun night together.

Ok.

"B" called me a third time while on my way home. I answered. Invited me to have dinner on Thursday for a mutual friend's(she went with us to the cowboy club)birthday. Altogether, it may just be the three of us. She talked a bit about what's going on in her life. I do like talking to her. I tell her that I'll try to make it, but we'll have to see. She told me to let her know.

I won't go. I'll just send the friend some flowers that day. It's for the best.

At work, the girl that was relaying the message from "B", asked my coyly, "Who's B?" I told her, someone that I need to stop talking to. She gave me the look.

I pick up kid who is living with us from work, and WW calls me to tell me she has left for the day and is going to stop at video store before going home. I tell her that I see about dinner when I get home.

She must have spent a lot of time at the video store, because she got home nearly an hour and half later. About 40 minutes of unaccounted time as far as I'm concerned. Dinner is ready. I tell WW that we were waiting on her to eat. She apologizes and says she looked and looked and couldn't find any good movies. She got two dumb looking movies. She said that she had to use the bathroom and pointed to her stomach. I said something like "Poor momma didn't even get to read a paper!" and the kids laughed.

Scarfed down dinner. I gave WW a choice of jobs. Dishes or puppies. She took the dishes. I cleaned up the puppy room(our bathroom). The horror. After, I go watch my Spurs in our bedroom. WW's mood changed after looking through all the unopened mail in her name. Bills. Definate mood change. Nothing said, but you know the looks. She is working on throwing out junk mail, sorting out her bills. She sees me in bedroom watching the game, putting some balls into a cup, and lifting some weights. She puts one of the stupid videos in the living room. I finish my VERY disappointing game and go and find WW asleep on sofa. Her cell phone wakes her up and its nephew letting her know he has a ride home. She goes out for a smoke, comes in to bedroom and says goodnight, going to bed. I take a shower and into bed myself.

I'm up early again and D6 comes out. Accident again. She has the confused look, "But I didn't even dring a lot of water!" She says it a couple of times. I put her in shower and wash bedding again. I put her in bed with WW, who then wakes up. She gets out of bed and I tell her to lay down for a little longer. Don't have to tell her twice.

Make lunches. Ask her. Thinks a bit. No, not today.

I found out last night that she is not off today like I thought. That was on my mind alot. I know today is OM's B-day. I am waiting for a call later, tellimg me she is going to have a drink with someone from work or something.

Trying to think about what I might say. Comments?

I am planning on sending an email to her later, concerning the car insurance. Letting her know that I have the new card printed. See if I get a response today.