The kid event went well and I stuck to my plan of not sitting with the W. She made it easy in missing more than half the event chatting on her cell in the car. I interacted with other parents and actually had a good time.
I avoided her as much as possible at home and even avoided a D/R conversation at home that she tried to start at least twice. I helped the kids with homework and then went to bed. The anger level is still high but I am not seeing it because I am always "in the other room" physically, mentally or both.
The W usually forces some sort of issue on me mid-week on the D/R front. Tonight will be a challenge.