I am not sure but I notice the same kind of drama of control issues w/ your ex, Mrs. H and mine..and aren't they all latinos?
Mine has temper control issues and will take vengeance....
Just keep on loving those babies just liek you are..they know you are their ROCK!
D10 gave me many mday cards including one that she typed from school that tugged at my heart...it read something like... "I know we are going thru some trouble right now, but I want u to know that your are still the best mom ever and you make me laugh with your funny faces and evvn thoguh soemtimes you may be mad , I still you know you love me and I will always love you for being there for me."
Oh lissie, I am so sorry. what a rotten thing to do to his son. and omg, what a wonderful boy M is to say to him straight out that he hurt him when he left! that takes a lot of strength to do.
am so sorry javier is acting like this. he's frustrated by lack of control over you and thinks he can do it by hurting the kids...that just is not right.
(((HUGS)))
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"