I guys. I'm going to sign the documents this morning. So this will be the last post for me here in Seperated. I'll move over to Divorced But Not Done when I get back.
Thanks for your support over the past few months. The truth is you guys are great. I hope none of you get to this point. I'll keep posting because a D isn't always the end it can also be a beginning. I still have hope.
Jen Here is a letter I'm going to give H today. ******************************** Dear H
As you know I do not want this divorce but I will sign the documents because I want you to be happy and if the divorce will make you happier then I won’t stand in the way. I am signing this document to let you know that no matter what I want what is best for you.
I hope that we can move past this and be better people and parents to D and maybe become better friends along the way.
We’ve hurt each other over the past 10 years. But we’ve also had some very happy times. Please don’t stop remembering the good times because in the end they matter the most.
I love you very much and I know I didn’t let you know how I felt as much as I could have. I’m sorry for not being there when you needed someone to talk to and to listen to you. I’m sorry for not supporting you as you deserved to be supported. But most of all I’m sorry for not doing my part in the marriage and expecting you to fill voids that I realize now could only be filled by me.
The door to my heart will always be open to you because you will always be a part of me.
Love always Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
