WOw, so you're wife cracked a little and exposed a bit to you? Its interesting her crying on the phone about issues at work. I'm glad you mentioned the OM in your post, becuase I was reading that thinking Hmmm... we dont know but, it seemed a bit of an overreaction on her part to be upset and crying because her friend moved office and her dog had died... just seemed to me perhaps that thats what she said she was crying about, but perhaps it also has something to do with the OM.. that either they are geographically separated now, or perhaps there is some worry that either he or she will no longer be working together. We dont know of course, but it made me wonder.
Great that she took the opportunity to open up to you anyway! That is positive.
Again, your W is exhibiting this strange over controlling nature. After 12 years together, having a D together and all the shared possessions, she finds it necessary to text you saying sure I will LOAN you the mattress.. so her Ds grandfather can sleep on it. I mean, really, is that really necessary !??
I do hope that your D hears nothing bad about you in Indiana or anywhere else. I thikn it is despicable behaviour to bad mouth fathers in front of the kids, especially when they are so young. Like someone posted to you though, as long as you maintain a loving connection with your D, she will know the truth in her heart and will be fiercly loyal of her dad as she grows up, no matter what anyone tells her. Every D needs a father. Dont worry about it!
Ali x __________________ Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years IDLYA: 2 Nov 07 Own flat: 26 Jan 08 Depression confirmed: 4 Mar Stuck in Stage 2 !
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
