Marcum part 2

[LucasE]

I would go to another MC. For sure. She is telling you that she is willing to go to MC. Just not that one. Respect her feelings for this current C. Show her you care about what she thinks. Dump that one immediately. Don't go there if she is uncomfortable. Take that time to be together. Get another for the same day even. Maybe after a string of hearing the truth some of it might start to seep in. I would take that opportunity to be with my W. I would treat it like a date. A chance to show her how hard I was willing to work to make it work. Be there with her when she finds herself. BUT BEWARE! DR warns us that these sessions can be very dangerous at this point in your R. If you proceed into a session with your W and some "who knows who" you must have a plan for how you will act and what you will say in such free discussions. You must be able to stay on track and not be seduced by anger. That would cause backsliding. I, personally, would take those risks. The chance to attempt to communicate on potentially deep levels is one I would take.

Three hugs sounds really good. As does eye contact. So does the willingness to see another MC. I think it was a success. Haleluja.