Well, locked another one.

So the alien creature has returned to the house. Terrible angry attitude, and just saunters into the house tonight after therapy at almost 9pm. I like a jerk almost waited for him to eat, once the time hit a certain point I was like hello dummy, just eat. And so i did.

I could tell h was home earlier in the day, lights on, mail taken care of (none for me to see) and I could tell he ate. So when he came in there was no plate set out for him, h was like no plate, my reply was did not know when you were coming home, and did you not eat before you left, answer was yes, but i still want dinner, ok was my reply there is more than enough, grab a plate for yourself and dig in.

After dinner tried to get him to commit to day and time to deal with the vehicle issue, what a run around, well i don't know, I was like i take some time on thurs to go before 7pm (changed my therapy to start going down the shore on my fridays off) to see what they have to offer up about the lease issue. No real reply he seems to want to go on friday, I am out of here friday am for the shore. I hope to be in atlantic city celebrating my dads birthday by 4pm. He just seems so convinced that he does not want a rav4 for himself. Honey pie I am not telling you or saying you need to get one, I am. My choice I am beginning to find things more and more interesting. H you want me to not be depend on you, to do things on my own, you do not want my help, claim to not need it, and refuse it when offered. How am i forcing you to lease a vehicle you don't want. It is what I want and I am going to do it. Period.

I think i am being more than fair, the car that is being traded in which is he has been using is in my name. So it is free for me to do what i wish to do with it, I am willing to split in half what the dealership will give for it. I think i am being fair.

Strange, very strange.

Well hugs to all
bear


Me 42-Him 40
T20yrs Married 16yrs
2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore"
6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW
12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce