Mishka that is exactly what you need to to do. Put the focus on you. Those are things I am working on to. I have been tanning, had my nails done, pedicure, shopping for me, hair done.
I am now looking into joining a gym. I also try to do something with the kids on one of my days off. Like movies, musueum, zoo, play structure, park. Just enjoying my time with them.
Speed racer and Iron Man are out in the theater. Maybe a matinee with your son.
You are doing good.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"