Thanks T. You have encouraged me much. Looks like my D is just around the corner. (i believe he is putting in the papers with the final stuff from mediation.) it is what it is....i can't change him or motivate him. whenever he talks to me he cries----man wouldn't it be cool if he like meant it- went to figure himself out and wow woke up and was a new man?????????? ok ok i know that is like a few years away. =( and me? jsut keep swimmin' just keep swimmin.


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again